On New Year's Eve seven years ago I was a senior in high school. I was just getting home from work when I got a phone call. I was planning to tag along at some stupid high school party with my best girlfriend, even though I was hoping something more fun would come up...and it did. My friends Zack and Ian invited me to join them at the multi-stake youth New Year's Eve dance at the Black Mountain building in Penasquitos. I called my friend, told her I was going to a dance instead, got ready, and drove to Poway to meet up with my friends and follow them there. I still remember what skirt and shirt I put on, and driving the small stretch of the 56 (that then existed) for the first time behind Ian's VW van...aka "The Twinkie of Death".
We arrived at the church building, and there were a bunch of kids I didn't know sitting in the back of a truck belonging to someone I did already know as Scotty Olson. I was introduced to a handful of new people from Poway and Ramona, one of which was named Jeremy Smith. After waiting around for some more friends to arrive, we went inside. I remember most of that night pretty well, but now the most fond memories from it are of when Jeremy asked me to dance, when we hung out at the Muir's after the dance, and then talking for a while with Jeremy at Ian's house after that. We seemed to have a lot in common, and he was excited that I liked (at the time mind you) to surf as well as wakeboard and snowboard. He got my number and said that he'd call me when he and Danny were up at Big Bear later that week when I would be there on vacation with my family. (That leads to another funny story I promise to share later.)
So, that night we each met other people that we ended up dating rather than each other, but I did become good friends with the boy that I would one day marry. I can honestly say that I had no idea at the time, not a clue that things would pan out the way they did, but I am so grateful for the way they worked out. I always said that I wanted to marry someone that I was friends with first, and that is exactly what happened. I'm so grateful that I met you that night Jeremy! I love you!